Hi John,
I joined a month ago.
And its great to read your story. Congratulations on your Baby!
What struck me about your story is the issue you bring up are the emotional situations you are dealing with.
I have had three open heart surgeries, especially when I was younger, all during the seventies. Back then, the chances of surviving were not so great.But the advances made in cardiac surgery and care is beyond amazing.
So, yes, these surgeries, as I might suggest your surgeries as well, were life-changing. Our bodies go through trauma. The body can, and usually does heal, and heals well.
After my last surgery in 1976, when I had an prosthetic aortic valve implanted for an aortic stenosis, I spent the next 40 YEARS suffering from PTSD'
Anxiety attacks, daily, depression, and suicidal thoughts. Why? I doubted my valve, my body, even my life.
Only recently, just 4 months ago, I had an immense breakdown after suffering from a serious suicide attempt.
NOW THIS STORY HAS A POSITIVE ENDING! I spent three months in a facility that assisted others with traumas PTSD, depression etc.
It was here that I learned that, yep, all these traumas with my surgeries, especially emotionally, were valid:
I learned that children and adults who have heart surgeries, without getting ANY kind of therapy, psychiatric or otherwise.
Our minds just can't comprehend what has happened to our bodies.
I have since radically accepted that I am what I am, I can't change the past, but I can change my future, being more active, loving, and forgiving, To me!
Hope to hear back from you my friend.
Ken Levine
527 Buttolph Drive
Middlebury, Vt.05753
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ken levine
volunteer, retired
802-236-8186
kenpaullevine@gmail.comMiddlebury, Vermont
05753
United States of America
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Original Message:
Sent: 11-22-2018 22:29
From: John Lindsey
Subject: Introducing myself
Hi Everyone,
I'm not sure if I should be posting this in another thread- please feel free to let me know if I'm in the wrong place.
My name is John Lindsey. I am a professional opera singer with a wonderful wife, sweet doggie-daughter, and a baby due any day now.
I am 32 years old, and was diagnosed with coronary artery disease in July, which was found on CTA after trying to determine the cause of intermittent heart palpitations. I've been placed on a statin as well as aspirin. Earlier in the year, I had early stage melanoma removed, along with several other severely atypical moles. I also recently had partial-fundoplication surgery to try to correct severe acid reflux.
I deal with panic disorder, generalized anxiety, health anxiety, and depression. Coming to terms with the state of my health (CAD in particular, since the calcium they found is in my LAD artery) has been difficult. I tell doctors, friends, and family, and they all just look at me with a kind of sad pity because they don't understand how I could have this issue; I've made mistakes along the way, but have tried to live an active lifestyle and never exhibited signs of this disease.
I'm grateful to have found this community, and hope that I can be a source of support as well as hopefully finding some support for myself as well. Nice to meet you all.
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John Lindsey
Singer
Conroe TX
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