Remember: CAREGIVERS also called by some as ANGELS need lots of love.
Patients: Often our caregivers have suffered emotionally and worried more than the patient . They worry :
Will they be able to handle the responsibilities once the survivor comes home? What would life be like without their loved one. ? On top of that, the patient is often crabby , Grouchy, needy, and generally unpleasant (not necessarily who they are really).
We , the heart person patient, in spite of our right to be self centered for healing , need to show and speak words of gratitude and give smiles to those who take care of us.
While I was in a medically induced coma, My husband slept on “those not so comfortable sofa bed” in my ICU room. When i was awakened, selfishly, I wanted him with me but I sent him home. and asked Friends to make him nutritious meals ( real food, not fast food)( he had neglected his diabetes). One cousin even washed his clothes.
Caregivers: Don’t hesitate to ask friends and family for Help: be specific. they want to help but don’t know what is needed. In your turn, you have helped in the past and will in the future .
All of us can also take benefit from prayers and spiritual support. I received messages and prayers from people of many faiths and around the world. Knowing this gave me the urge , the push , the responsibility to get better, to be worthy of this special attention.
Sorry, This message is off topic: not about medicine.
Hopefully you all will recover: even if the recovery is gradual. I knew i was better when my husband asked me to do something in the kitchen for him!
Marilyn B. Rosenhouse
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