Hi Chris,
My story is similar to yours. On February 12, 2018, I felt pressure in the middle of my chest and pain in my shoulders. I knew it wasn't workout soreness so my wife and I went to the ER. The doctor said I had a mild heart attack and that they'd do an angiogram later in the day and hopefully be able to fix the blockage with a stent. Well, they did the test and the next thing I was told was that I had major blockages in five coronary arteries, "including the widow maker" and that hey had scheduled me for bypass surgery the next morning at 7 am. I told my teenage daughter and my wife that they could expect me to be in the hospital for a week but that I would be okay.
When I awoke after surgery, I learned that I had been intubated and sedated on a ventilator for two weeks post-surgery due to ventilator contracted pneumonia and a "c diff" infection. At least all my tubes were removed while I was asleep and I didn't look like a Christmas tree (my brother's words) anymore. My wife hadn't wanted my daughter to see me with all the tubes, so she didn't let her visit. My daughter finally showed up after I was awake for a few days, when she and her friend snuck up to the ICU to visit.
Anyway, I spent another three weeks in a rehab hospital learning to do things like walk again and, although I had period aches, pains and was very tired, I gradually got stronger. It's now five months post-surgery and I feel much better. I've been back to work these last two months, working out at my gym lifting weights again and walking a lot. You'll get there too my friend.
Best of luck to you and your family,
Ira
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Ira Reid
Hoboken NJ
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Original Message:
Sent: 07-16-2018 10:26
From: chris rhoads
Subject: my first post
Hello everyone. I have never in my life posted anything to a message board. On May 25th 2018 I had the carpet ripped out from under me when I went to the ER with some difficulty breathing. I was told that my left main artery(the Widow Maker) was about 95% blocked. They did attempt to install a stint but it was unsuccessful so my surgeon told me I would need to have open heart surgery. I was floored! I'm 42 years old! I'm a husband and father to two children(ages 3 and 7) and all I could think of was the possibility of them growing up without there daddy.
I had surgery the next morning and then woke up in ICU to begin my process of recovery. Staying in the hospital for a week was hard! Its the longest I've gone without seeing my kids. I didn't want them to see me with the drain tubes and IV and such hooked up. Especially my 3 year old. A day or two before I came home I did allow my daughter(the 7 year old) to come visit.
Once I got home I feel like it got harder. I started to get really down. I started to get depressed. My doctors all told me that these were normal feelings and they would pass in time. It didn't make it any easier. I felt like a useless member of my family. A burden! I couldn't make a living for my family, I couldn't help around the house, and I couldn't be the rough-housing dad I had always been for my babies! I missed wrestling with them. I had to keep telling them to "be careful with daddy!"
This Thursday will be 8 weeks since my surgery. For the most part I feel better physically. I still hurt most days, some are worse than others. Mostly soreness and stiffness. I went back to work on July 2nd. Mostly because sitting at home wasn't doing much for my mental health. The depression is better but not great. I keep looking forward to feeling "good" again. I suppose it will come in time!
If you read this, thanks for reading my venting. I hope you or your loved one are doing well in there recovery.
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chris rhoads
maintenance director
land clearing specialists
beaver PA
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