My son has TOF and his behavior got really bad to the point he got suspended 8 times last year. He has an iep and he gets good grades but was always getting suspended. I too did not want to do medicine. We have him in wrap around services getting therapy and finally decided to ask about meds. The neurologist spoke to the cardiologis and decided to put him on add medicine. He has done fine with it and his behavior is so much better. Now we can actually calm him down and talk to him where as before he was just to upset to listen. Now I think we can get through to him and he can acyually learn the way to be have and eventually take him off the medicine. He hasn't had any problems with it though he is on th a very small dose.